Wedding Gift Etiquette Question
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Wedding Gift Etiquette Question
I guess that is the right title. Okay- here is the problem- a friend of mine- (not a close one)- daughter is getting married in June. I make some jewelry and that type of thing for fun. . So, she found a tiara she wanted and it was 250.00. Alot! So, she brought me a picture and I was able to get close with alot of work. It came out really nice. Anyway- it didn't cost me much - around 50 or so to put together. I would really like this to be part of the gift that she would get from my family. Appropiate or not? Thanks!
Absolutely! A few years ago, my gift to someone was making their 200 wedding programs. The materials costs were about $50 also but the time spent was A LOT. I think that is more than a generous gift. It was wonderful for you to go to all the time and effort to recreate the tiara!
I think so.
Totally!
I would love a gift like that for when I get married. Actually my best friends mom is making my jewelry for me and my bridal party as a gift to me.
absolutely appropriate! The girl who sang in our wedding, was a friend who was also invited to the wedding. She usually charges around $60 per wedding, but she just said it was our gift from her. Singing didn't cost her anything, but when you think that she could have made $60 if she were to sing at another wedding that day, it ends up being pretty fair to me! She didn't have to buy us anything (although i think she ended up giving us candles or something too) and we didn't have to pay her! Anyway, i'm rambling again I think that is a great gift!
Definitely! A friend did my nails for my wedding, and that was her gift to me. It was great!
Totally appropriate!
I agree, totally appropriate. If you want to "memorialize" it, as you say it is "part" of your gift, include a photo of the tiara with the rest of your gift.
Thanks ya'll! I KNEW I could count on you.
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