So, I met a lady a few weeks ago who informed me that her and her Dh schedule sex, or "date night". It got me thinking, how many people actually have a scheduled day and time? I just thought this was funny since we just go with the flow around here!

By Reds9298 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 04:44 pm:

Go with the flow here, too! I would say it was more "scheduled" when we were dating, without really being intentional. We went to different colleges so when we saw each other on the weekends, we KNEW we would be having sex! LOL

Different strokes for different folks I guess!

By Tripletmom on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 05:11 pm:

Never scheduled here either-I need to initiate more myself-too tired.I'd probably be to tired to make a schedule.LOL

By Yjja123 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 05:16 pm:

Is it scheduled if it is usually the same days of the week? If so, I guess we kinda do.

By Missbookworm on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 05:19 pm:

Well, I can't say we schedule it but since we're only dating I'd say it's scheduled for any time we do get to see each other which is quite often. 2-3 times a week and we take trips away in the summer quite often.

I wonder if that will change if we were living together and/or married or if we'd still just have it often like we do now. We've been dating for 3.5 years.

By Dawnk777 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 06:07 pm:

Go with the flow. Usually mornings, but once in a great while, in the middle of the night! LOL! Sometimes can be anticipated, but usually not.

By Crystal915 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 06:13 pm:

We only scheduled when we were TTC. Now it's whenever the mood strikes, sometimes more than others.

By Boxzgrl on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 06:37 pm:

Sex..... can you remind me what that is???? LOL!

Normally, no. We're pretty sporatic and do it when the mood strikes. Right now while pregnant, it's impossible to get in a quickie or to even do it sporatically so we seem to be planning, and it doesn't happen even a fraction of what it did before being pregnant!

By Reds9298 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 06:42 pm:

Oh man Melissa....I remember that particular downside to being pregnant! I know some women have a lot of sex during pregnancy, but nothing seemed to work for us while I was prego so it was really the only thing I didn't like about pregnant!!!

By Anonymous on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 07:25 pm:

We do both. We have scheduled sex every Sunday night and for special occasions. We also have sex when ever the mood strikes, averaging 2-3 times a week.

By Kernkate on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 08:08 pm:

Go with the flow.

By Tink on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 09:11 pm:

We're a bit scheduled and a bit "go with the flow". DH works in the evenings so we usually only squeeze it in once or twice during the day during his work week but we both know it'll happen on his nights off. You do what you gotta do to get some lovin'!

By Reds9298 on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 09:17 pm:

ROFL Tink!!

By Rayanne on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 09:45 pm:

Go with the flow here too, but now that we are TTC we are kind of scheduling it too.

By Cocoabutter on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 09:54 pm:

Well, we might have to start scheduling, cuz going with the flow doesn't seem to be working here!

We occasionally get out for dinner together alone, but sex is never really part of the plan.

By Mrsheidi on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 09:56 pm:

Hhhhmm....we have our next scheduled appt sometime during R&R week in October!

By Brandy on Monday, May 1, 2006 - 11:32 pm:

I think i might have to start scheduling it lol = ) ...

By Insaneusmcwife on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 06:34 am:

ummmm..people actually do that???? I guess we are the when the mood strikes kind of couple.

By Tonya on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 08:26 am:

We are so tired during the week it usually doesn't happen and we go to bed at different times so usually I am in bed first and asleep before he comes in to go to sleep.

But the weekends we know it will happen a couple of times at night and usually in the mornings too. We are busy on the weekends to make up for the week. (I like the weekends!!)

And we never had a problem during either pregnancy we just got really creative I was in the mood allot more during those 9 months.

By Anonymous on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 09:20 am:

Hmmm every night after the news, I guess that could be considered scheduling

By Juli4 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 11:49 am:

I am with Tonya. Mon-Thu are really busy and we are tired, but we manage to fit 3 times a week in on the weekends. I also love weekends.

By Reds9298 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 01:19 pm:

We love weekends, too! Rarely through the week. Too tired, too much going on. At least twice on the weekends, usually 3-4x. Lovin' the weekends around here!

By Dawnk777 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 02:44 pm:

wow, you guys are getting a lot of lovin' in! If we do it on just Saturday morning, I figure we're doing good! LOL!

Recently, DH had come up to bed at 4am, since he'd fallen asleep on the couch in the basement. I had to go to the bathroom and when I came back, I swear all I did was kiss him...

By Reds9298 on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 02:54 pm:

We're kind of marathon on the weekends. I don't know why, we just always have been. All those years before marriage when weekends were our only time together I guess!

By Missbookworm on Tuesday, May 2, 2006 - 03:10 pm:

Wow! we're a bunch of marathon sex women on this board. LOL! I love anytime we can! He swears one of these days I'm gonna kill him, but it doesn't sound like a complaint when he says it.