Oh, I am so mad right now I am sure I could spit nails. Newyears is tommorrow night, and since my sister and her dh are going out of town, all my girls are going up to her home to look after the house and the dog, so that meant that dh and I were going to be alone for newyears. I was looking forward to it, maybe get romantic or something, well he went behind my back and invited this couple over whom, I do not like, which I told him that when he mentioned asking them over, I had said no, I did not want them to come over. I was on the phone, to my friend he went into the bedroom, and called this couple and invited them, on the other line. I am so mad, I told him he could spend his new years with them, I was leaving and some choice words of course. Here I thought we could have a nice romantic evening just us, for a change, and he just wrecked it. I have not talked to him since. I am not sure if this couple is coming, I just feel betrayed, because if I suggested someone to come over and he said no I would not have called them.

By Conni on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 09:06 am:

Men!!! UGH!!! ((((hugs))))

By Jelygu on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 09:10 am:

Ugh is right. I'm sorry your romantic ideas were ruined. ((((Hugs))))

By Kernkate on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 09:52 am:

Ditto UGH!!!!

By My2cuties on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 10:03 am:

That was not very nice at all...how selfish. Sorry your plans were messed up. Maybe it will work out in the end..they may not come.

By Paulas on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 12:36 pm:

Maybe when he found out how upset you were he called and asked them not to come.

By Missmudd on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 12:57 pm:

I would let him know exactly what he missed out on by inviting the friends over, and I mean EXACTLY. Then let him know that the chances of that happening are now pretty slim since he BLEW IT and seriously made you mad and made you pretty hurt.

By Paulas on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 03:11 pm:

Good idea..maybe next time he'll think twice!

By Mrse on Friday, December 31, 2004 - 09:37 pm:

Hi, everyone, well I did not end up talking to him, untill this afternoon, he called me at work, and said that the couple he had invited could not make it, so I did not have to worry. I had to explain to him yet again that that was not the point the point was he went behind my back. I did get an apology, in the end, finally. We got some movies dh's brother might pop around to say hi. I got cold mountain and something else which for the life of me I can not remember. So I am feeling a bit better about tonight, except for the fact, that I have been running to the washroom, I had nacho's in a bar after work, and I think the sourcream was bad. Hope everyone has a wonderful newyears, have a good one!!