We got a call last weekend that my grampa was really sick, and may not make it. I got someone to take my last shift on friday, and I went with my mom to see him, and half way to the home that he is in, we found out he passed away. We went to the home, where he and my grandmother live, and they had not even taken him out yet, so we got to see him one last time. Mom was a wreck, but for some reason I held my own. My grandmother has dimensia so every once in a while she would ask where he was, and the devisation would start all over again. We went to the home sat, and sun to see her and she just sits in her chair and sleeps, then wakes up, and is suprised you are thier. It is so sad,. I am so tired right now, came home, had a house full, dh, and bil and friends were watching some sports, I just wanted everyone to go away. I think the worst thing was, is seeing my grandmother crying so hard, my mom could not handle it, so I told her to go for a walk,and I took nany by the hand, and took her back to her room.

By Vicki on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 08:59 pm:

I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like a long weekend.

By Ilovetom on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 09:02 pm:

Makes the holiday hard to lose a loved one doesn't it?

Take care.

By Mrsheidi on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 09:42 pm:

So sorry...sometimes it's so hard to see our loved ones hurt so much. Just being there for them is what they need...they are lucky to have you. So sorry...

By Jelygu on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 09:56 pm:

I'm sorry for your loss... I will keep you and your family in my thoughts

By Wandilu on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 10:57 pm:

My heart goes out to you.My mother had Alsheimer,so I know how difficult that is.The best advice I can give you,is let your grieve.I know there are times when you will have to be strong for others.But you also need to take care of yourself.God Bless You.

By Children03 on Monday, November 22, 2004 - 11:22 pm:

I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, I hope you feel better soon.

By Kernkate on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 12:04 am:

{{{Mrse}}} So sorry for your loss. After losing my mom in August I think its the worse thing to deal with. Its so hard to see a loved one dealing with such a great loss. God will give everyone the strength to get through it.

By Dawnk777 on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 12:13 am:

I'm so sorry for your loss.

By Theresa_Momma on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 01:46 am:

{{{Mrse}}}

By Mrse on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 05:31 am:

I have more bad news,it is 2:17 in the morning, and we got a call at 1:00 that my sister in law pasted away. She had a stroke yesterday afternoon, they flew her to Victoria hospital, but she did not make it. She was in her late forties.I just don't know what else to say, I guess I better get some sleep, I have to try to get through work tommorrow.

By Colette on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 05:39 am:

I am so sorry. {{{Mrse}}}

By Rayanne on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 09:54 am:

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} OMG. I am soo soo soo sorry sweetie. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

By Conni on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 10:07 am:

I too am sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.

By Tink on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 12:28 pm:

I'm so sorry. What a tough time for your family. You will all be in my prayers.

By Cat on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 12:32 pm:

{{{{{Mrse}}}}} I'm sorry your having such a rough time. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

By Janet on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 03:40 pm:

So sorry for your loss...
{{{HUGS}}}

By Kay on Tuesday, November 23, 2004 - 09:59 pm:

I am so very sorry - you have been through so much in such a short time! Be sure to take some time for yourself along the way, okay?

My thoughts and prayers are with you.