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Moms View Message Board: General Discussion: Archive November 2004: Just a weird vent
I dont really need any advice just someone to vent to. My dh's ex has been driving us nuts for the past 2 months and we are getting very irritated by it. They have one child together and she has decided to buy the house she lives in together with her mother. She has decided that she is not going to get married and is satisfied with her arrangement now. Well the problem is that she says she wants one more child...okay.. her problem not ours right? Well she ahs been writing letters and calling and emailing begging my husband to be the father since they have one child together. Is it just us or is this HIGHLY inappropriate to even suggest much less beg for? My dh of course said she was nuts and there is nooo way it would happen. She keeps saying "oh we can do it at a dr's office if your wife doesnt want us to sleep together and you wont have to pay child support for this one...first of all those are not even issues...its just wrong..we are married!!!!! And not to mention how would that child feel knowing daddy takes care of their sister and not them> OMG the problems this would cause. She has even written me a letter asking for me to stop holding him back if thats the case..well pooh..i wasnt even here the first time she asked and he didnt have to think about the answer..in fact never asked my opinion cuz he would never do it!! Please tell me that we arent crazy and that her asking is horrible! She is even calling his parents to see if they can help talk him into it! his dad is a PREACHER...lol obviously not gonna help her with this..lol! I gues at this point its just getting irritating to have her not give up..well 6 weeks from now i guess we will be rid of the whole subject since hubby will be "fixed" LOL! UGGHHHHHHHHH
Good God - she sounds like a nutcase.
She's certifiable, IMO. I wouldn't even consider what she is asking. And as for her saying you wouldn't have to pay child support, I wonder how that would stand up in court, *if* your DH did father another child with her? Because legally he would be the father, and if I'm not mistaken, she could go after him for child support.
Absolute nutcase! I can not believe the nerve she has! Can you get the vasectomy appointment moved up any sooner?
Eek! That's just bizarre!!
What a psycho!!!!
Holy COW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As my nephew would say 'She ain't right.'
Oooooooookaaaaaay, very strange, I would have some choice words with her, and it would be nothing nice. That is craaaaaaazy!!!!
My first thought was "is she smoking crack?"
Wow, sweet Jesus, no youre not crazy for saying no.
I have never heard anything like this. It is so nuts that it is actually funny!
Wow! She sounds looney tooney!
Speaking as a professional therapist...she needs MAJOR help of the mental kind. Run the other direction as if your hair was on fire and the nearest water was in the next county! And he would be legally liable for child support regardless of any agreement.
She's certifiable. And if it weren't for his child, I'd say change your phone number. Man!
Whoa! I think she *is* smoking crack, ROFL. Run!!!!
No no, a thousand times no. The child support issue would certainly come up after the child was born. It would be a HUGE mess! What is she thinking? Yikes!
Oh she could say he wouldn't be financial responsible but the state would say something else.
Ditto all responses above! Unbelievable!!
I can't believe she would even ask. That is too wierd, IMO.
I would say that she is being purely selfish. How sad is it that she would go through all those things just to have another kid? It's not like your husband is a furniture store and he needs to provide "chairs that match the dining room table"! She either needs a hobby, a new man, or some therapy...hmmmm...maybe all of the above?
Oh, gee - the first thing that came to my mind was, "Please SOMEONE keep that nutcase ex from procreating!"
This one takes the cake !!!! Thank God your dh had the good common sense to get away from that nut case!! My first thought was,beat the tar out of her for even suggesting that!!But after I quit laughing,I realize that this is no laughing matter when someone keeps harrassing you about something,and imho,this IS harrassment.I think you should send her a certified letter and tell her ,nicely,that there is no way this will ever happen and you want her to stop talking to you,dh,and anyone else about it.And then if she continues,get a restraining order against her.You will still be able to see your dh's other child,and do the normal things that you usually do together.But,it would let her see that ya'll mean business.This might seem a little drastic,but SHE seems drastic!!!!! Good Luck.
YIKES!!!!!!
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Lots of hugs because I know I would be tearing my hair out in frustration! 