Need help finding info on mail accts??
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Need help finding info on mail accts??
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I have Hotmail and I think its either 60 or 90 days non activity before closing. You should be able to check.
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Well, I never use my yahoo account and I just checked it and it's been deactivated due to not being used for 4 months.
Yahoo deactivates after so many days of not signing in. I'm not sure how many days though. I just remember that I once had an account "disappear" because I never checked it 
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Oh no! I am so sorry.
I am sorry Conni. This is not sounding good at all!
Conni, I called and left a message for my Dad to call me. He builds and works on computers and can be quite the hacker, LOL! (Not in a bad way) But I remember on several occasions in high school he was able to hack into my deleted mail and read my messages. It has to be within a few days of the mail being deleted but when you open any email on your computer it gets saved in a temp. file on your computer until its automatically purged. (Or so thats how he explained it) So i'll ask if he can tell me over the phone and maybe I can help you out.
I'm sorry. (((HUGS)))
(((Conni))) I just wanted to let you know that I am sorry for what you are going through. Lying is worse than anything else, IMO.
I don't know if you have Yahoo messenger or not. But, it would use the same password. There is a feature called Message Archiving. You could activate it in case he talks to her that way. It just saves all the IM's he sends or recieves.
I'm sorry you're having to go through this!
found this on google
Recovering Deleted email in Outlook
When you delete mail from your Outlook Inbox, it is moved to the Deleted Items folder. You can open this folder and look to see if the e-mail you wanted is there. If it is, select the e-mail and drag it back to your Inbox.
If the e-mail you want is not in the Deleted Items folder, pull down the Tools menu and select Recover Deleted Items menu option. A dialog box displays the items you have deleted in the last 7 days. Select the items you want to recover, than click on the Recover Selected Items button (2nd button on the Toolbar). The items you selected will be moved back to the Deleted Items folder. You can then move them to your Inbox.
Conni,
You can change the trash folder in yahoo so it doesn't automatically empty itself. I'm going to mess around in my yahoo acct and see what I come up with. I'm so sorry, I've BTDT with my ex, he created secret email accounts for porn, and lied when a charge showed up on our credit card. Melissa, I'm very interested in what your dad has to say. If you don't post it here will you email it to me? palmbchprincess @ yahoo.com
Conni,
I didn't figure out how to save the delete trash, but you can go to options in yahoo mail, and save all sent messages. Then you can check the sent folder to see if he is emailing the woman in question. If he replied to her email, the original text will be in his reply. HTH!
Conni, I'm so sorry you are going through this. I don't think your DH is being honest with you. You have got to calmly, but FIRMLY, stand up for yourself. A married man has no business emailing or IM'ing a young, single woman. Period. The only reasons for doing so are sadly obvious, IMO.
You and your DH have some serious talking to do. Things need to be laid on the table. He has broken the trust that should be the foundation of your marriage. I wish you would get into counseling together. He's got to start being honest with you and himself.
Whatever's been going on needs to stop. Even if *nothing happened* between him and this girl, he does NOT need to be in contact with her. Certainly not while he is married to you.
I wish I had some great advice to give you, but I don't think I do. At this point, I'm suspecting the worst about him. I know you are hurting and angry right now. All I can say is, as much as you probably feel like screaming at him and lashing out, that won't be the right way to handle this, it will further alienate him. You probably need a cooling off period. You should think about what your expectations of your marriage are, think about what your *bottom line* is, and collect your thoughts; and when you have done this you have to talk to him, alone, no interruptions from kids, phone calls, etc.
I really hope you can get things back on track. Again, I'm so sorry.
{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}
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