Crystal - Did you ever post your surprise news yet?
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Crystal - Did you ever post your surprise news yet?
Hey I saw about a week back you had news for us but I have not had the chance to see if you finally updated us yet let me know? How are the kids doing? How is the new job going?!
LOL Thanks for asking Tonya... I will post some good news soon, hopefully by the end of the week. I don't mean to tease... I promise I'll spill the beans ASAP. hint: I'm not pregnant, lol that was Cori's guess!! The kids are doing great, talking more each day, and we are still in the process of Shane's ECI evaluation. The job is going well... heck of a drive, but worth it! BTW Tonya, how are you? I bet Jade is getting big!! How is Timmy?
Kids are doing great. Today was Timmy's first day in 1st grade I cried! He laughed!! Jade is 6 1/2 months old and getting huge she is now 18# 7oz and 28in lg. 95% for weight and 98% for height. Big girl. She is crawling all over has 2 teeth on the bottom and is try hard to sit up on her own and I swear she is saying dada but was told no by my mom but we will see tonight when I get home. She just started it yesterday with this new noise I swear that is what it is. I hope not I want mama to be 1st but I lost with Timmy so I will with her too probably.
Crystal, you are killing me with suspense! Spill the beans now!!! LOL Where are you working now that it is such a long drive? That is wonderful to hear about the kids. I hope the eval goes well with Shane. You should email me sometime.
Can't wait to hear your news, Crystal! Tonya, babies usually say dada first! Mine did anyway!
It's really good news! Tonya, all of my dks said dada before mama.
Did I miss that there was surprise news or did I just forget? Mommy brain! Yes, please post! We want to know! LOL!
Tonya, Hang in there. Timmy said MAMA first and waited for quite a while til he said DADA. :o) Come one Crystal. Spill the beans.
Hmmm..should we all start guessing and see who is right?? LOL
Ok, I can spill... DRUMROLL PLEASE! I AM DIVORCED!!! I got custody of the kids. The reason I knew it was going to work out with the custody battle is I found out my ex had a secret he had kept from all of us. He was arrested on 21 March, 5 days after he was served with the divorce petition, for a DWI. It's sad that he messed up so bad, but I was very concerned for the kids' safety because of his drinking and irresponsibility. His DL was suspended b/c of his guilty plea 2 weeks ago, and he continued driving the kids around after that. Well, the attorney ad litum found this out from the newspaper, and told me. He'll have visitation and stuff, as long as he is not driving. I'm just really relieved, it's FINALLY over!!!! Thanks everyone, for the support and encouragement... it means a lot!!!
Well, good for you!! That is not what my guess was going to be, but it is just as good for you!! I am glad it is over for you and that things turned out in your favor.
Crystal I am so happy for you. It is about time!
Thanks! BTW Amy, I forgot to answer your question... I'm working at Nextel in Temple, but I live south of Killeen, almost to Florence. It is a horrid drive!! So tell me ladies, what were your guesses??
Well i was hoping Nate had popped the question lol = ) but i guess you had to get the divorce out of the way first huh lol...
Great news! I can't believe John got a DWI - I would have never thought! Well it is wonderful that the kids are with you considering that he is behaving so irresponsibly. And great to hear about Nextel, what is your position? Any discounts? How is the eval going with Shane?
I was wondering if Nate had popped the question. As for John, what an idiot to get a DWI! Sheesh!
I'm with Dawn, I thought you were going to say that you were getting married or you were preggo, lol! Contratulations on the Divorce. I'm glad the kids are with you. Thats exactly where they need to be.
Ok, add me to the engaged list! I really thought that was it. I forgot about the divorce stuff. Geez, I just had that all over and done with, I guess! LOL! Congrats!
LOL sorry everyone, Nate had actually popped the question before Christmas last year. Quick, I know, but we kept it quiet since I wasn't actually divorced yet. His first question today was "when can we get married?" (legally 60 days, but we're going to wait, so our families can be here and his middle brother can be his best man). Thanks again all!!!
((((hugs)))) I'm so glad all of this finally got worked out!! My first guess was that you are pregnant.....after you said that's not it I thought it was an engagement! But, it sounds like that has already happened Congratulations all around!!!!!
I'm so happy for you
I also thought you were going to announce you were engaged!
Great news all around.
In all honesty, I forgot about the divorce, too!
Congrats, Crystal! I just thought I'd give my official MV congratulations. I'm so glad that Shane and Maddie are with you.
Great news! And the kids are right where they should be.
Congrats on all counts! A good life to you!!!
Crystal, I am so happy for you! I remember how miserable and frustrated you were with all the custody hearings and battles. You deserve some happiness now! Ame
Here it is!
Here it is!
Congratulations!
Aww thank you Feona. For those that are interested, Nate proposed by candlelight, a beautiful speech indeed. It's been a few months, but I still get goosebumps thinking about it.
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