I am a high school teacher and one of the ladies that I teach with and I have become really good friends in the last couple of years. I should include that she is an art teacher...a really good one, too. In any event, I received an invitation in the mail to an open house for an art exhibit that she is involved in. My question is, what exactly goes on at an art show opening reception? Do I...take a gift?...a card?...dress up? I am clueless, but thrilled to be invited! HELP!

By Feona on Saturday, August 7, 2004 - 06:14 am:

I don't think you have to bring anything. But if you wish, you can buy a bottle of corked wine, if you like to bring something. (really the cheapest 3.99 corked wine is fine.)

She is trying to sell her work - or display her work. There should be wine and maybe cheese there.

I don't think you would go wrong with linen or polyester pants and shoes. Neat top. Not under dress and not over dressed. or Light weight dress for coolness.

By Audreyj on Saturday, August 7, 2004 - 09:36 am:

Be aware that she is trying to sell her work.

I am sure she doesn't EXPECT you to buy a piece but usually the artist is interested in trying to "be seen". And if you see a piece that you honestly like and you can afford it, I am sure she would be pleased.

I have been to two art shows, I did not buy anything because I did not see anything that appealed to me. But I did honestly comment on work I enjoyed and if someone else showed an interest I politely "got out of the way" so my friend could sell.....

I brought a bottle of non-alchoholic champagne to both shows I attended. I wore a casual dress and low heels. And I left the kids at home!!! (ha ha)

By Lauram on Saturday, August 7, 2004 - 04:13 pm:

My mom is an artist, so I have been to MANY openings. You should definitely dress up- not too dressy- but "smart" casual if you KWIM. As it was said, there will most likely be wine and cheese. It's a "party." You don't have to buy any of the artwork (it may be VERY pricey!) and you don't have to bring anything. I definitely would NOT bring the kids- it's an adult party (though like I said before- as a kid I went to many of them (and I cut a lot of cheese!)) No gift is necessary- just a conversation with the artist to compliment her.

By Angela on Saturday, August 7, 2004 - 11:16 pm:

Thanks for the advice ladies! I didn't get to go because my dh works construction and they are in the middle of a major project and he had to work overtime. I was really hoping to go but couldn't find anyone to watch the kids...and I kind of figured that it would be like turning a bull loose in a China shop by taking them...especially the 4 year old...LOL. Once again, thanks for the advice...this really is a great board.