Did you ever have one of those day....
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Did you ever have one of those day....
when you feel old?? I am feeling that way today. My oldest DS Tom is getting ready to go to his senior prom. Another month will be graduation. Seems just like yesterday I was crying when he started kindergarten Bitter sweet moments. Well at least they have a nice day for their prom its 72 degrees here and sunny. Will post some pics later, can't wait to see his girlfriend Robyn's dress
I certainly do understand how you feel. It was yesterday it seemed that I took my oldest ds to kindergarten. Today, he's a college sophomore, I have a college freshman dd, and my 'baby' dd is in 7th grade. Where does it go? but
I feel that way already and I will be 34 in July! My son is 10 and my dd will be 3 next month and I feel like the time is just going to fast.
OMG! My son *just* today becomes a junior in college. Sniff. Where did time go?
Well....I'm on the other end, but feeling sad as well because I send my oldest to 1st grade next year. She'll be a big girl and spend all day at school. I know I'll cry. She's just excited that she'll get to eat lunch at school LOL My mom always said that "once they start kindergarten, you've lost them". Meaning that once you take them to that first day of school, the next thing you know they are graduating and moving out
Been there....Done that....and I've found that the empty nest is quite comfortable. LOL I'm old but still kicking.
RETIREMENT The last of the boxes are emptied. The last of your things are unpacked. The time for goodbyes is upon us. Now I call upon all of my tact. You're a man. I can see what's before me. You're a man, And I've helped make it so. You're a man, And it's time now for leaving, But Lord, how it hurts to let go. A job that I've held for two decades Is finally completed and done. A job that I've cherished, The heartaches, The traumas, adventures and fun. I've propped, I've hugged And I've pampered. I've punished and lowered the boom. Held hands at my sides When I wanted to reach. Stepped aside When you needed more room. It's time for us now to be going And you say You'll do fine here alone. One last hug And I rush from your dorm room, Leaving you here to stand on your own. If anyone tells you it's easy Put them down As the worst sort of liar, For they don't give you Watches and banquets When it's time for a Mom to retire. B. V. Dahlen ©
Bea, great poem....I love it! Still have a 9 and 3 year old to keep me going Going to print your poem and save it for August when Tom goes to college... Thanks
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