This will be our first Thanksgiving without Dh's parents. I know it's going to be sad, I always host a big crowd on Thanksgiving and they were always part of it - esp. my mil, she always helped with the cooking. I am using some of her recipes, but does anyone have any ideas on how to remember them, simply - dh does not want it to turn into a big production, it's still to soon and to sad for all of us.

By Tsa on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 02:04 pm:

Two simple roses placed on the table in their honor. Some thing could be said but it doesn't need to be. God Bless you and your family this holiday.

By Colette on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 02:15 pm:

That is a wonderful idea, thank you.

By Yjja123 on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 02:26 pm:

You can light 2 candles before the blessing and say it is in remembrance of them.

By Bea on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 03:09 pm:

I would have everyone join hands for a blessing and form a circle of life remembering those who's hands we can not hold, but who's hearts will always be part of this Family Circle.

If you alone hold those recipes, you could make up cards or a booklet containing some, for each family and say it's a gift from Grandmother and Grandfather.'

By Luckyduck on Thursday, November 15, 2007 - 05:04 pm:

I like the 2 candles idea as well. Hope you have a good and safe holiday Colette.