Forgetting birthdays
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Forgetting birthdays
Would you be upset if your Husband forgot your birthday? Today is my birthday, my husband has not said a word about it.. We both watched the news this morning, and it clearly stated the date. Of course I told my kids it was my birthday,after all, they are just kids. Faith said "tell daddy to buy you a birthday cake" ....a girl after my own heart. I came downstairs this morning and saw that he had called but left no message. I "thought" ok, he remembered it was my birthday. He does work at a desk on a computer all day, he knows the date. I called him back and he told me to remind Elizabeth to clean her room. Apparently they had an agreement that she would clean when she got up. I said, "anything else" and he said no, and we both hung up...sigh... When he gets home from his 2nd job, I will remind him that it is my birthday. Granted, our(mine and him)are never big deals like the kids. But... I ALWAYS remember to say Happy Birthday to him. Yes, I am sad.. but I will get over it. Has any of your spouses forgotten your birthday?
My dh hasn't ever forgotten but I don't give him much of a chance to miss it since I mention it a few days ahead of time. If he did, I know I'd be hurt to not have any mention of it all day. I hope that he gets his head on straight before he comes home. {{{Jackie}}} HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Happy Birthday Jackie! I am so sorry. My brother and sister both forgot my birthday so I understand how you feel
Happy Birthday, Jackie! I hope your DH will remember and give you a big hug when he gets home!
Happy Birthday, Jackie!!!!!
My husband is terrible with birthdays so I definitely should give him a heads up. BTW, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!
Happy Birthday!
Happy Birthday Jackie. I seem to remember you posting the same thing last year. :-( I'm sorry.
Thanks for all the birthday wishes Karen,Im sure I posted this last year, I dont remember ...I never ask for anything special, but just be acknowledged would be nice..sigh..
Happy birthday Jackie. My dh forgot once, and almost forgot a second one. Sounds like he's pretty busy working 2 jobs. I am sure it just slipped his mind. I do know how you feel though.
Karen..I remember now. Last year we were on a cruise for my birthday. And yes, he did forget. Its hard not to know the dates on a cruise. I mean they leave you all types of stuff and excursion info on specfic dates. last year we were walking to breakfast,and I mentioned to my daughter it was my birthday. After she said he happy birthday, he did too.
Happy birthday Jackie!!! DH hasn't ever forgotten my birthday and I would feel really badly if he did. I'm sure he's just busy with work and got caught up. {{HUGS}}
Happy Birthday Jackie! I hope it well..... Take care
Happy Birthday, Jackie. My hubby just isn't one to make a big deal of the important days. I just don't sweat it anymore. He is good in so many other ways. He was better, earlier in our marriage. Oh well. On the other hand, though, once he saw a cute little apple-shaped cookie cutter and brought that home to me, for no reason, other than I would like it.
Happy Birthday To You Happy Birthday To You Happy Birthday Dear Jackie Happy Birthday To You! Sending great bigs hugs your way!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Birthday Jackie! Sorry he forgot. My dad forgot my birthday last year...
Happy Birthday Jackie! I hope he remembered and you had a good day!
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