but could anyone tell me what they experienced when they had a miscarriage please = ( i've had some pink/red discharge when i wipe and i can't figure out why i'm also the one with the pregnancy question down below.I posted about it but i haven't had a response = ( please help i'm scared.

By Kate on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 09:52 am:

I'm sorry you're worried and have no answers. I'm not a doctor, but truthfully it doesn't sound like you were/are pregnant. I can't imagine why one would bleed the night conception took place. Implantation bleeding can occur sometimes, but that's a few days AFTER conception, not the night of. To me it sounds like your cycle has been off and you're now starting your period.

Why don't you call your doctor and ease your mind?

By My2girlygirls on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 09:57 am:

First of all, RELAX. Take it easy and put your feet up. Call your doctor and see what he/she says. Discharge doesn't always mean miscarriage. I have experienced a miscarriage and I know that you are scared right now. Are you experiencing any cramping or pain? Is the bleeding getting worse or staying the same? The Doctor will want to know this. Take it easy and try and stay calm. Let us know what your Doctor says. We're praying for you.

By Anonymous on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 10:13 am:

I just called and made a yearly exam that i haven't done in 10 or so years it's on July 13th though.They said to get ahold of my regular doctor of course = ( and couldn't tell me anything.Thanks everyone i appreciate it greatly.

By Bobbie~moderatr on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 10:33 am:

I just did a search and this is what I found..

Bleeding during the first 12 weeks of pregnancy is fairly common, which may or may not indicate there is a problem.

Vaginal bleeding occurs in about 30% of all pregnancies. Of these 30% of pregnant women, about 50% will continue their pregnancy and have a healthy baby.

Bleeding during early pregnancy can range from mild spotting on underwear, or perhaps a blood-stained discharge noticed on toilet paper after wiping. These tend to be of less concern. Bleeding as heavy as a normal period or more (enough to soak a sanitary pad), is more indicative of a possible miscarriage. The blood can be bright red (fresh), pink (very light) or brownish in colour (old blood from a few days previous), with the amount and frequency of bleeding varying from woman to woman. There may also be some mild cramping, or period-like pain and/or backache, more commonly associated with heavy bleeding.

NOTE: Any vaginal bleeding during pregnancy should be communicated to your caregiver. Also, be aware that many women experience very mild cramping or period-like pain, backache and sometimes unusual sensations in their lower abdomen during early pregnancy. Unless there is bleeding associated with these sensations or the pain becomes quite severe, it is usually related to the uterus growing and changing and generally nothing to be concerned about.


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I think you should first try to figure out if you are pregnant or not. Go get a home test and take it.. I am assuming that you are "just" (not a good word) spotting and not cramping. If you are cramping, you need to go to the ER.. Don't wait on an appointment. IF you are pregnant and these are early signs of an issue there are steps they can take to stop it from becoming a bigger issue.. This is a moment where you need to know what is going on. So start, with the things you personally can do and if you aren't getting answers there (might be to early to tell on a pregnancy test, for example) find someone (the ER, primary care) that can get you the answers you need now...

I hate doctors offices and the whole put off... You are in a crisis and they just brush you off and schedule you so far out that if this is a issue needing attention now the are risking treatment.. Your primary care, may be willing to give a in office urine test or blood draw today, with a scheduled follow up... Don't give up finding out because the OB put you off...

By Anonymous on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 10:46 am:

Thank you Bobbie it gives me some hope.

By Bobbie~moderatr on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 10:48 am:

On a side note.. With my third pregnancy, I was four months pregnant with the girls before my period stopped. I had no clue I was even pregnant, I honestly thought I was just getting fat. The positioning of the girls had pressure on my cervix and they are of the opinion that until the babies shifted the cervix wasn't able to seal completely and the period continues.. I am telling you this because I am not sure what is happening with you but I want you to know that not all bleeding means what we dread it to mean.. We are here and we are praying that you are able to find out what is going on quickly and that you are able to have the support in your real life to address whatever this means.. Huge hugs... From us all, I am sure.. Please, please keep us posted..

By Trina~moderator on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 10:59 am:

Have you taken a home pregnancy test?? That's the first thing I would do if you believe that's a possibility. You may or may not be pregnant. There are many other female issues that could be causing your symptoms. Endometriosis, ovarian cysts, uterine fibroids and perimenopause to name a few. Definitely get in to see your GYN asap. If not pregnant, he/she will do a physical exam and probably order blood work and an ultra sound to see what's going on. {{{HUGS}}} I'm dealing with female issues myself, and my GYN just put me on the pill to "quiet down your pelvis". LOL!

By Anonymous on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 11:18 am:

Trina i haven't taken one yet i'm going to try hard to get ahold of one today though.Thanks for the information.Also how young can you be to start perimenopause? I guess i will go look that up.Thanks again everyone.

By Trina~moderator on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 11:46 am:

Perimenopause can start in the 30s.

By Cat on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 01:02 pm:

I spotted when pregnant with Randy. It scared the heck out of me because I'd already miscarried twice. The doctor said it was probably from the placenta being so close to the cervix. He's a very healthy 11yo now! I guess I'm just trying to say spotting doesn't always end in miscarriage and can be part of a normal pregnancy. Get that test and find out. Hugs

By Vicki on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 01:40 pm:

I think your first step is to find out if you are even pregnant. You might be all concerned over nothing at all! Do you have a walk in clinic or stat care in your area? You could go there and be tested and then if you are, be examined to see what is going on! At least it would put your mind at ease!

By Eve on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 08:10 pm:

From my experience with multiple miscarriages, a little pink is usually ok. It's the brown that is usually a big issues, which means old blood-never good. I also had implantation bleeding. So, I guess I am out of the ordinary. Good luck!

By Rayelle on Friday, June 1, 2007 - 08:27 pm:

Anon, this is going to sound like I'm lying, but I'm really not. Lately I have had some ligament pain in my lower stomach and backache. I also then had some bloody discharge and got a pregnancy test. It was negative, as it should be since I haven't missed any pills or anything but you never know. I just thought I'd tell you that because it's too weird we have such similar issues!
I had this happen to me when I had a cyst, which is no fun. It started light but I bled for 6 weeks solid then it just went away, cyst and all. Are you on the pill? It could be breakthrough bleeding. I had a miscarriage before. With me there were no physical signs of it until about 6 weeks after the baby had died. I started with cramping, then bleeding and it was very heavy. I also bled for no bad reason throughout every healthy pregnancy. If only there weren't so many reasons!!!!! I agree, you should take a test to see if you are even pregnant. If you are it doesn't mean anything bad necessarily. If not, it could still be something harmless. A lot can make your cycle out of whack. If it keeps up you might want to go to the doctor. Let us know!

By Kaye on Monday, June 4, 2007 - 09:10 am:

Anon, how are you? did you go to the doc or do a home test?

By Anonymous on Monday, June 4, 2007 - 09:20 am:

I've actually started my period so i was worrying all for nothing thanks for asking though.