Here's a good article on "How to Trash Your Marriage" that I thought I'd share.

By Anonymous on Monday, January 9, 2006 - 04:51 pm:

A very interesting article. Unfortunately, many of those things is how I act in my marriage. I know I have done it all along, but it seems strange to actually read it.

By Boxzgrl on Monday, January 9, 2006 - 05:01 pm:

I'm guilty of a few. At least I know what I need to work on now.

By Pamt on Monday, January 9, 2006 - 05:58 pm:

I think we all do some of those...at least on occasion. That's why I posted it. It's a good reminder for us all.

By Heaventree on Monday, January 9, 2006 - 10:28 pm:

Hey Pam thanks for posting that! I loved it. I think I'll print it out and read it every week as a reminder to be a little kinder and a lot more loving and to reaffirm my commitment to my DH.

Thanks again.

By Reds9298 on Monday, January 9, 2006 - 10:47 pm:

Thanks for sharing this. Selfish...#1 in the article and #1 for me, too. A constant battle for a little girl who *always* got her way. Poor DH...

By Karen~moderator on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 08:01 am:

I printed it out last night......

By Rayanne on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 08:29 am:

Thanks for posting that. I am sending it to one of my friends whose marriage is on the rocks. Maybe they can read this together.

By Happynerdmom on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 09:14 am:

Great article!

By Amecmom on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 02:31 pm:

Thanks Pam!
Ame

By Alberobello on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 06:09 pm:

I send it as a forward to all my friends, but it was really intended to two of my dearest friends who, one is at the point of divorce and the other one is thinking about it. Thanks, it was a great link. Good food for thought (is that how you say it?).

By Cocoabutter on Tuesday, January 10, 2006 - 06:56 pm:

Basic love and mutual respect and kindness go a long way.

By Robin on Wednesday, January 11, 2006 - 06:16 pm:

Great article. I bookmarked it and will be sharing it with my dh. We are both guilty of some of these things some of the time. It really puts things in perspective.

Thanks.

By My3cuties on Wednesday, January 11, 2006 - 07:01 pm:

Oh wow! I love it!! Thanks for sharing! DH was on the phone when I pulled it up and I read bits and peices to him. We both laughed at the way it was worded (mainly the whole "treat your husband like he is 3" part), but it is an awesome reminder how to act in a marriage!!