I am going in for lazor hair removal here in town, and I was excited about telling my girlfriend about what I am doing as I have been living with more hair than a woman needs. I was telling her that I was getting hair removal on my chin, and that I had a little patch on my lower back which I was going to do once the chin was finished. Now I have to set the scene, all the kids were in the kitchen when I was telling her about it, including my daughters 21 year old boyfriend) but they were not paying any attention and I was talking low so they would not hear anyway, so I went on to say to her, that I am not going to bother getting the hair removed, from then I ran my hand down my butt, as yes I have hair thier too, then in a loud voice she said well I would not know about that I don't have hair on my *ss. She also looked right at him with a huge smile. I could have died. I am upset with her because the way it all went down, she came out with a answer when their was no question. How rude

By Alberobello on Saturday, December 17, 2005 - 05:21 am:

oh darling! well the damage is done, so i suggest you don't think about it anymore. DO you think she did it on purpose? or that it just came out. I'm so sorry this happened to you, but i am sure there would not be major consequences. And anyway, good for you that you are having this done. I too have living with more hair than i need (my dad's fault as my mum is completely hairless!!!) but i wax and that seems to work for me. Good luck and don't worry about what happened.

By Bobbie~moderatr on Saturday, December 17, 2005 - 07:12 am:

I agree, brush it off. I wouldn't even think about it... You are doing something about it and it is no ones business how hairy your rear end might be to begin with. She probably thought she was being cute and she made an a$$ of herself not you...

By Mrsheidi on Saturday, December 17, 2005 - 08:10 am:

I can see how that could be embarrassing, especially if you have trusted her enough to confide in her like that.
Even if no one was there, it was not a sensitive response.
{{{{Mrse}}}}

By Kim on Saturday, December 17, 2005 - 10:03 am:

she probably thought she was being "cute". If it really bothers you I would tell her nicely and explain how your feelings were hurt and ask her to not do that again. Or, if you can, blow it off as the others suggested.

I am sorry that happened to you!

By Mrse on Saturday, December 17, 2005 - 02:47 pm:

Well she has done this kind of thing before, and I am really dissapointed in myself for not telling her right off the bat that I was upset, it is not like me, to not say something, but it was such a shock at the time I was speechless. I am not dwelling on it, it is over now but I will know better than to mention a sensitive subject again.