Lately I have been wanting to TTC. My kids are 4 and 6 yrs old. They are both "trained" as in potty trained, they can talk and walk and all that stuff that we would have to do all over again if we had another baby. I am not sure if I just want to get pregnant because a bunch of other people I know are pregnant or if I really do want another child. Before we had kids, dh and I wanted 4. Then once we had two, we decided that was it. We were in our early twenties then. Dh has concluded that he is done with the diaper changing and actually volunteered to get a Vasectomy! He is 31 and I am 28. We are young! I told him that he can't have a vasectomy because I am not positive that we are done having kids.

He grew up with one brother,so he is fine with just two kids. I however have 2 brothers and 2 sisters. I loved having a big family and still do love it. I don't know what to do. It is not like we fight about this. And it will not ruin our marriage. But for a while now i have been going back and forth about this in my head. A few times my period was late, I took a ept test and it was negative. I was actually disappointed when i saw that one line. I just wish he would stop being so stubborn and realize it wouldn't be that bad! But of course i don't want to talk him into something he does not want.
I am going anon. because he hates when i put personal stuff on the computer.

By Yjja123 on Friday, July 29, 2005 - 04:10 pm:

You have to decide what is right for your family.
Good luck!